Wednesday, April 28, 2010

4 Months and Counting!!!

Okay, this is not the continuation of Contract or Covenants..I'll get back to that...but today, the 28th day of April, 2010 (yes, I'm a lawyer), is our 4th month anniversary (The Asiwaju and I)!!!!!!!!
I am so happy, so so excited. I know it is just 4 months, but 4 months is a looooooooong time in relationships, trust me. Anyway, I have decided to take the day to appreciate my man.
I have a good man...a mighty good man. He makes the extra effort to keep me happy. He invests into our relationship, financially, emotionally and with a lot of time. He listens to me, even when I'm talking about the most irrelevant things. He indulges me when I'm just being spoilt. He motivates me to do more..achieve more. He is smart, super smart. He has taught me so many things. I can say, that he has helped me look at things differently. My baby is humble. He talks to everyone...literally, everyone...full conversations, not just a mere nod or something..he talks to you and listens to you and for those minutes, if you feel like you mean nothing to everyone, you feel like someone cares. For every beggar that comes his way, every tout, every sales assistant etc...people that many of us don't see, he sees them, he knows their names, he knows their story and they love him for it.
I have my friends tell me all the time that they love him, they think he is cool, they think he is down to earth etc...and my head swells with pride. He has a way of making you comfortable around him. He will ask you loads of questions and wind youuu, he cracks me up.
He makes me laugh sooooooooo hard.
He is sooooo hard working. So so hard working and he is SUPER ambitious. Very disciplined and he has his head screwed on tight!!!!!! He does not try to keep up with the Jones'. The Jones' have their own lives to live, and he has his. He taught me something in Yoruba "Ma fi ago alago sise" (Don't use another person's watch/clock to work). He lives by that, and I could not agree more.
Then physically...oh! I love him. I live the way he looks and I love his style. He wears what suits him...not what is in fashion...my baby's got style!
Well, I am sure the rest of you are about to puke. I did say it was our anniversary didn't I? And I did say I wanted to appreciate my man!
We have our arguments...we don't agree on everything. We have probably hurt each other at different times, at least I know he has hurt me. But we move on from our fights pretty quickly. He doesn't dwell on these things. I do. And I am ashamed of myself.
We have had 4 happy months of dating officially and I hope we remain happy.
Happy Anniversary to us both!

2 comments:

  1. U knew I'd be puking my guts out when I was thru with this right?
    lol
    But you are So Right. The Asiwaju is all that and more. A good man! Plus he called me when I was bereaved so hey... he's got a plus from me and more!

    **puking as i type this** "Happy Anniversary to My Colleague and The Asiwaju"

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  2. Hehehehehehehe...sowwyyyyy!!!!
    Thank you anyhow!!! My head has swollen again...(okay...hold that puke)
    Lollllll

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